Something Out of Nothing
"Weathered Moments: Reflections on Nature and Family"

My mind wandered with the river. I thought, “How does the atmosphere and ground culminate
into a substance that can be felt and seen, sometimes in quantities of destruction? What makes
rain, thunder and lightning, wind and any form of precipitation, appear out of what seems like
nothing.”
It takes temperatures from above, on the ground, and in the air to mix with whatever is in
between to create a tangible, sometimes terrifying, weather situation. This is much like a recipe
or favorite cocktail when ingredients come together, mixed, shaken, warmed, or cooled, to create
something solid and new.
The weight of precipitation is equally fascinating. Snow can be light or heavy, making for great
packing snow for snowmen, snowballs, forts, and ramps for sledding, while other flakes have the
consistency of boxed mashed potatoes. Rain can be as misty as a steam sauna or fall from the sky
in drops large enough to crack a windshield.
My wondering weather contemplations ended when we arrived at the ramp to disembark. It was
time, no one really wanted to be ki-yi-yaking anymore.
I recall other times the weather gained my attention. When my father-in-law became bedridden, I
opened the window whenever it rained for us to enjoy the shared admiration of nature’s sound.
Another evening, while I sat in a friend’s all-season room under a tin roof, I was lulled by the
steady rain tapping like fingertips on the roof.
Sometimes, I’ve sat in my car relaxing to the sound of rain. I never mind giving the rain a chance
to slow before getting out of my car. One day while making sales calls, the rain poured like
Niagara Falls. I didn’t have time to wait, and the only parking space was far from the door. I
walked as fast as my blinking eyes could see and was drenched from head to toe. With every step
I took, water squished from the pressure of my feet and bailed over the sides of my stilettos. I
wanted to throw myself in a dryer before presenting myself to the office. But in the end, the rain
worked in my favor. The nurse took pity on me, not only with paper towels, but two minutes of
access to the physician even though I had no appointment.
Much like rain, snow also calms me. Flakes falling from the sky lower my blood pressure with
waves of stillness each time my eyes follow the downward movement of white mysteries. My
mind settles, my heart fills with content, and the rare snowstorm is welcome here anytime.
I know it’s science-based with how the air, ground, and temperatures combine to create
precipitation, but there’s still an uncertainty to the timing and intensity of the result. What makes
it a “light” snow or a life-threatening blizzard? What takes a movement in the ocean from the
pull of the moon and water temperature to produce a devastating hurricane with damaging winds
days later and hundreds of miles away. What makes one storm system on the meteorologist’s
radar appear harmless, then suddenly become a disaster?
Even with all the scientific weather forecasting equipment there is still an element of mystique
and unpredictability and wonder.
The sound of thunder never ceases to startle and amazes me. Our house was hit by a ginormous
bolt of lightning in 2006 that sounded like a bomb exploded under my bed. I thought we were
under attack. Our home shook and my body jumped! While the storm was a tiny red blip on the
weather radar, that one bolt of lightning caught our house on fire and left us living in a rental
home for a year. To this day, bolts of lightning make me jolt like when my sister hid behind a
door and jumped out to scare the daylights out of me.
After penning my weather ponderings early one Saturday morning, I turned on Turner Classic
Movies, my go-to channel. I was blown away by Prophet Without Honor, a short film about Lt.
Matthew Fontaine Maury, a colorful naval officer who developed the first maps that chartered
the ocean’s winds and currents. The timing of his story and my fascination about weather are not
lost at sea with me. This channel really knows how to channel my thoughts.
To experience a visceral response to gentle rain, a blanket of snow or frightening thunderstorm
reminds me of how intricately connected our bodies are with God’s magnificent elements of
nature. God created this earth and atmosphere, as well was us. Weather reminds me that we are
delicately joined.
Once while kayaking on a river with my family in Michigan, it began to rain. The happenstance
of me being in a kayak on a river during a rainstorm surrounded by my family was once in a
lifetime. We don’t own kayaks, and we aren’t river people. So, to be on the water flowing
downstream with gentle, sometimes hard, rain from above was an experience I will never forget.
I felt immersed between two of God’s great wonders: nature and my family.
I want to be an outdoorsy kind of gal, but I don’t like bugs, and I don’t have the wherewithal to
be alone outside. I’ve watched many scary movies with wooded scenes and creepy people
popping out of lakes and behind trees. But this outdoor event was a planned vacation activity on
the weekend my son proposed to his girlfriend. Ultimately, whatever the soon-to-be engaged
couple wanted to do; we did. Because, she is an outdoorsy gal, and so are her friends and family.
While our family has been labeled “indoor cats” we are fully aware of, when in Rome, or
Michigan, do as the natives do, and go along with kayaking-camping-hiking people.
The fun went south when my daughter fell into the river, overturning her kayak. Then my other
son’s girlfriend fell in and neither of them wanted to be kayaking from the start. But they went
along to get along, because that’s what families do. Then came the rain, which wasn’t as
welcomed by others as it was by me. I was dry, and clean, and felt at one with the Creator in that
moment while kayaking.

